# i settled on xander/anya! # because she teaches him maturity and patience and how to love selflessly # and he gives her a place to belong and guides her through her new life without judgment (though definitely with some embarrassment) # and i think that's kind of really great # Xander Harris # anya jenkins # xanya # btvs # Buffy The Vampire Slayer # Older And Far Away # Hush # The Gift # once more with feeling # selfless # Hells Bells # family # graphic # mine # 30buffy